our Services


As a certified coach, Nicola is trained to listen deep, ask strategic questions, and get you to a place where you start to think differently, and act upon it.  She is most passionate about helping people uncover beliefs that no longer serve a purpose, question them, and slowly release them. You will be pushed to think big and open your mind, and explore possibilities never thought of before.  Most of the roadblocks we set in life were set many years ago and so deeply engrained in our psyche that we can’t see them for what they are – old coping mechanisms that no longer serve a purpose.  Is it time to rewrite some belief systems? Nicola truly believes that everyone has the greatest potential inside of them and is here to wholly support you in that journey.

tailored date design experiences

At The One For You, you don’t just get matched.  You and your Match will be sent on a tailored date experience designed to bring out your best self.  Prepare to have fun and show a little vulnerability while getting to know your date on a deeper level.  There are different denominations of Date Packages available, and the possibilities are almost endless. Be guided through proper dating etiquette to increase your chances of success.

The Tailored Date Experience is also available to people who are already partnered up.  Perhaps it’s a 1 year anniversary, marriage proposal, or birthday celebration and you want to do something really special for your partner?  I work with you to design an experience neither of you will ever forget.  


A 90 minute collaboration where Nicola will embark on a deep dive to discover who you are at your core, thus giving her the insight she needs to align you with some great people. How you see the world, your values, your deal breakers, what you want, what you don’t want, your dreams and desires, your perceived strengths and flaws… All questions are designed to give her a holistic view of who you are as a person and where you want to head in life.  We will also be discovering your Attachment Style (adapted from the book ‘Attached” by Amit Levine & Rachel Heller) and your Love Language (by Dr Gary Chapman), all designed to increase your levels of self-awareness.  

Ask about our mixer sessions

Social Mixers/Workshops

The One For You will be setting up monthly mixers for our members so you can get outta the damn house and meet some new people! If the idea of being stuck in a social situation surrounded by strangers is daunting to you, imagine this before writing off the idea completely: When you enter the room, remember that at the core of each person they just want to be happy.  Also, they all have insecurities NO MATTER WHAT. Just like you!  So take a deep breath, smile, and have a little compassion. 

There will also be occasional workshops held that will focus on anything relating to dating and personal growth. Feel free to bring a friend along, and just relax.  We’re all just perfectly imperfect human beings at the end of the day.